Hi Jordan,
I'm very unsure of what direction to take now
in my life. It's been nearly 9 years since everything
went crashing all around me. I dealt with everything the only way I
could at the time day by day. I made right decisions and a lot of
wrong ones. I'm a very positive person and that's
helped me a lot. I remarried in 2007 after my first
husband past away suddenly in 2005. I love this man dearly sadly there has
been a lot of hurt pain and now a lot of anger.
We were unable to live to live together
due to unfortunate circumstances. We do now finally have a chance to be
together he has lost all faith in us, yet we cannot part from each other our
love is strong and I feel we can pull through this. I don't like him at the moment I feel he
is not completely honest with me. He says he is not relying on no one no
more. It's so hard to walk away from this
relationship. I love him but sadly I do not trust him
and that hurts so much.
If he could forgive and move on let the past
go we could be so good together. He is a cancer man, very loving but is
filled with a lot of hurt and anger. I know my life is now reached new
beginnings I am going to go to him very soon. I'm told we will make it, I am very
scared we both are. I work with my universe and I have a
whole lot of faith.
Can you give me any advice.
Thank You,
Marilyn
Kent, England
Capricorn
Hello Marilyn,
I'm sorry to hear of your late husband
and am happy you found someone to love. Life is full of ups and downs, or
as spiritually said with yins and yangs. No matter how hard we try, there
will always be difficult situations and challenges to overcome. The trick
is when faced with a challenge, to not be consumed with the negativity that
exists but to use our ability to choose to harness the positive energies that
exist to maintain the light in our mind, body and souls.
Patience is a key to any relationship,
as is understanding. It seems you understand the situation going on with
your partner. As there is still love in your heart, perhaps ask yourself what
you can do differently in regards to your own thoughts and actions to help save
your relationship. Often, it is difficult to show patience and love
during hard times. Instinctively, one reacts based on his or her own
feelings, and no matter how much love exists in the soul, the actions and
words of one in a stressful situation do not show love but instead express
anger, frustration and distrust.
Instead of focusing on how your partner
can change, what can you do differently to make the situation better. Instead of "I", why not focus on "We."
You can't change another, you can only
change yourself. Do you love this man enough to work on yourself and give
fate a chance to help him see his love for you is stronger than his emotions of
anger, hurt and frustration.
Relationships aren't easy, but given the
right energy - any mountain can be climbed.
Below are some links to pages that you
may consider reading:
Love and Light,
Jordan
Canon
Spiritual
Advisor
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